Just say ‘no’
Posted on February 19, 2009 by Tom
“I have something that’s really interesting, especially for you.” If I would believe every phonecall I get, my yearly marketing budget would be gone in a month, spent on things that are ‘very important’, ‘just for me’ or ‘an opportunity I really can’t miss out on’.

We all want to scream ‘no’, but every rule in every customer relations book and every fibre in our wanting-to-please-everyone bodies have difficulties saying ‘no’. But saying ‘yes’, or worse ‘maybe’ means you’re losing a lot of your valuable time. Creating a conversation were there’s any room for doubt is giving them a chance to keep disrupting you.
Don’t give them anything they can use. Saying it’s interesting, but not now, is just giving them a valid reason to call you up again. So you’re not wasting time right now, but you know it’ll happen again in the future, even though you really aren’t interested. Untill they hear a firm ‘no’ and nothing they can use against you, they’ll probably keep bothering you.
I ask them to email you the details. Phonecalls are too invasive and disrupt your workflow. If they keep insisting, give them a firm ‘no’, even an aggressive one. They know the power of calling, personal contact is far less aggressive than written contact. We all want to be friends, so we’re all nice to eachother. That happens when you watch too many Disney-movies as a kid.
Blacklisting. There are always people who just keep bothering you, whatever you do, even if you said ‘no’. Just blacklist them, there’s no reason why you should ever accept their calls. They’re aggressive, too invasive and won’t take ‘no’ for an answer. So just ignore them. Even if they have something interesting, try to find another way, because they’ll keep remembering you at that one opportunity you took.
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